On How Your Traumatised Unconscious Chooses a Partner For You

By Steffen Jacobsen and Vanesa R. Crespo

Photo by IB Wira Dyatmika on Unsplash

This article is our attempt to present an understanding of the subtle and unconscious factors that guide us in choosing a partner. It’s based on various psychological theories, anecdotes and the danish book by Jytte Vikkelsøe, “Derfor forelsker du dig aldrig i den forkerte”, Gyldendal, 2017 (“This is Why You Never Fall…